You will find ways to nurture and protect the relationship you share with your children, enabling you to create a calm household. Although we often believe behavior is what we struggle with in parenting, relationships are where we make the biggest changes in our families. If we think about it deeply what do we cherish most? The relationship we share with our children or their behavior?
Control erodes all the hard work we do to build relationships and connections between us and our children. Control often leaves you and your child feeling angry, builds resentment, and causes a chasm between you, which over time deepens and pulls you farther apart. When we think of it deeply...who wants to be in a relationship where you feel controlled and manipulated.
Parenting isn’t easy! We have heard it time and again. What we don’t hear is that using conventional methods often drives the behaviors we so desperately are trying to get away from...not listening, aggression, sibling fights, and the like, and yet we dive deeper into those ways. Parenting only feels good when it is worth it. When we live in a reciprocal loving relationship with our children. This can ONLY be created using CONNECTION. Join me and learn how to parent with connection instead of using control and conventional methods.
This hour-long training will help you shift your thinking, because once we reshape the way in which we understand parenting we can begin to implement strategies supporting our goals.
In 2012 I hit a wall, a parenting wall. I could feel the wedge being driven in between my oldest daughter and I. I could feel her hardening to me and me to her, because her behavior was off the rails. She was aggressive with her sister, unkind to me, and refused to cooperate. I dug deeply into threats, bribes, punishments and rewards because as a former teacher, that’s what I knew to work and understood to be effective. However, it was unproductive with Esme, she was not going to fall for my manipulations, perhaps she knew they didn’t feel right to me and certainly not to her.
I found Hand in Hand Parenting and decided to dive headfirst into a new way to come to my children... first as a parent and then as an aspiring instructor. By 2015 I was certified and was benefiting from a family that had been completely transformed using connection. It was like magic, I was addicted to how it felt and the ways in which things changed. So much so that I have made it my life’s goal to help as many people as I possibly can by guiding them through this transformation too. You know what? This stuff works! Everytime a client takes a course or works with me, they are amazed at the results of just how transformative this approach can be.
Join me inside my training and find out how you can begin being the magician in your home and casting a spell of love and connection while also doing away with those things that make parenting more difficult. Don’t wait, things won’t change unless you do, and this can be your first and most important step to the most loving relationship in your life!
Grab your spot today to transform your house from chaos to calm. Can't make it live? No problem. Register anyway and I'll be sure to send you the replay afterward.